I badly need my sleep but I am restless now. I have said something seems to me as a small matter but it has already taken seriously by the offended.
I joked something about dancing (you know, the dance-at-the disco type of dance) to two different girls at two different dates. What I thought as an innocent joke has actually been interpreted as something very crude, and I have actually insulted these two sweet and happening cool girls.
Maybe it is seen as not respecting the whole womankind, or as under-estimating them, or as making fun of them, or such, but the point is, guys out there: if you want to be gentlemen and not offending the girls;
DO COMPREHEND THIS CRUCIAL FORMULA:
Girls + Dance + Jokes = A very big insult to the feminine race.
No matter how harmless it sounded to you, but actually you are a jerk if you do not follow this thing, like me.
Twice happened, and I have already now learnt the lesson.
One girl actually wrote a blog about it, and the other one acted very weird soon after that. Girls, I am really sorry for being a total jerk. It supposed not to mean anything bad, just a cute usikan from me, but sadly it was not cute, in fact it’s a horrid rude insult because it meant differently to you.
Do accept my apology.